What if grief had a face. What would that face look like?
What if it had a body and arms and legs and a personality and a terrible sense of comic timing?
What if no one could see them but you?

And what if they came to stay?


 
 

Grief has fangs

A monologue by actor and writer Lizzie Muncey

 

 

Memory/Loss

Dive into the creative process of illustrator Anna Millais as she develops a collection of images for the project.

 

 

It’s Alright

A lo-fi short film by screen actor and writer Fionn Whitehead.

 

 

A gift for those left behind

This short film by aerialist and theatremaker Rebecca Solomon weaves together aerial rope, puppetry and poetry.

 

 

Packed In

A wordless piece of physical theatre set on a train, devised and performed by She Said Jump's Maisie Whitehead and Malik Ibheis, with guest directing from Stephen Sobal and sound by Wayne Walker Allen. The piece introduces the characters from our live show, The Guy in the Luggage Rack.

 

 

Fractures

An original piece by singer songwriter and guitarist Hattie Whitehead.

 

Legs, a personality and a terrible sense of comic timing

 

In ‘When Grief Came to Stay’, six artists, working in different forms, considered the idea of grief as a character. We were interested in how we relate to grief, in what that relationship might look like, and how varied and changeable it can be, even within just one person's experience or lifetime. 

During the early research for our live project, The Guy in the Luggage Rack, we interviewed a number of individuals on their experience of bereavement and grief. We spoke to people at different points in their grief journeys. For some the loss was still recent and raw, for others more time had passed, and some had experienced multiple losses. Each person’s story was different, and yet there were some themes that echoed through several. 

In the first UK lockdown in 2020, not knowing when we would be able to continue work on the show, we decided to share our ideas with a small group of other artists we knew who were already interested in grief and related themes, in order to come up with some mini projects that we would be able to share digitally.

We drew out some of the recurring themes from the interviews that particularly interested us and gave these to each of the artists to respond to in their own unique ways, drawing also on their own understanding, experiences and existing work. The artists filmed their work, most in their own homes, with some help from members of their households and bubbles. 

The 6 resulting video shorts were released between the 7th and 13th of March 2021, along with a series of live online events with each of the artists involved.

What people have said about the project:

“This is a very important project. During the pandemic many people have experienced grief... and thanks to this project, people can see that they're not alone in this. This is the power of the arts… and She Said Jump just showed us how essential art can be.” Viewer/participant

“I found the videos incredibly moving. Each had just enough sweetness through their humour and beauty to make the darkness digestible - so for me they cut through my pandemic fog and really delivered an emotional impact and the sense of being seen in my own experience of grief.” Viewer

“Grief has recently become a relentless companion of mine. These six creative portrayals of grief’s numerous personas have really helped me to shed light on the complexities and nuances of how I begin to live with it and welcome it into my life. When grief comes to stay, they don’t ever leave you and I’m beginning to make peace with that. Thank you from the bottom of my broken (but not broke) heart for making this important work.” Viewer


This project has been supported through Crowdfunder.co.uk and using public funding by the National Lottery through Arts Council England.


WHAT EVERYONE’S FACES LOOK LIKE

 

Artists

Lizzie Muncey

Anna Millais

Fionn Whitehead

 

Rebecca Solomon

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She Said Jump
(Maisie Whitehead and Malik Ibheis)

Hattie Whitehead

 

Project Collaborators and Consultants

Hunter Allen
(video editor and consultant)

Becca Tomlinson
(bereavement counsellor and project consultant)

Amelia Ideh
(communications consultant)

Roisin Walsh
(communications)


 A Big Thank you to everyone!

 

Thanks to all those who generously shared their personal stories and experiences. 

Thanks also to Louisa Borg Costanzi Potts, Flying Fantastic, Jacksons Lane & Crowdfunder UK

This project was supported using public funding by the National Lottery through Arts Council England, and through the generous support of the following individuals:

AFT

Agne

Alexandra Baybutt

Alexandria Vernon

Ali Bakewell, in memory of Tony Bakewell

Alison Reed

Amelia Ideh

Amy Marshak

Amy Nicholls

Ana Hazeu

In Memory of Catherine Whitehead

Anthony Stark

audrey_helen

B & C Grant

Bea Fraser

Becky Moult

Ben & Sally Morris, dedicated to our mum Mary

Bo Ekstrand

Bree Streather

Bridget McCabe

Camilla Watson

cassidy burandt

Christopher Wigan

Damien O’Doherty

Dan Chatterley

Daniel Stark

Diane Borger

Edd Casey

Elizabeth Skeaping

Elizabeth Weaver

Ellie Agnew

Eloise Tye

Emma Stroud

Emma Wade

Faunsia Tucker

Fionn Whitehead

Florian Krueger

Frances Burrell

Francesca Zampi, in memory of David Johnson

Gabriele Nicotra

gdartnell

Ginny Dougary, in memory of my wonderful Mum

Gloria Sanders, in memory of Claire Chate-Fawcett

Grace Simmonds, for Simmo

Hanna Varszegi

Hannah Almond

Hannah Tottenham

Hannah Victory

heathercowen

Helen

Helen Williamson

Ida and Jamie

Iyata Golding

Jane Saunders

Janette Harper

Jason Miles

Jdine

Jenna Edwards

Jennie Cashman Wilson, in memory of Abram

Jennifer Dine

Jessica Allen

Jessica Bodgener

Jessica Reed

Jessie Sheffield

Jo Sampson

Julia Schulz

Julie Yeung

Kaidi Kikas

Katie Hardwick

Kerry Coke-Smyth

Kinga Jonczyk

Laura Stark

Laura-Jayne Hunter

Laurence

Laurie Clémence

LaVonna Phillips, in memory of Wilmer and Bruce Ray

Lisa Castle, dedicated to Philippa Tatham

Elsa & Liv

Louise Béguine, in memory of Léa

Loz Garratt

Lucy Coles

Lucy Warren

Lucy White

Maria Corcoran

Maria Paz Velarde

Marta Linkmeyer Gabino

Marwa Meshref

In memory of Ras I

Michelle Klein

Mikayla Bryant

Mimi & Damien

Molly Watson

Nadia Afroza Zaman, dedicated to my friend Erin Randall

Naomi

Natasha Kenny

Nick Donaldson

Pamela Chapman Burrell

Poppy Rowley, dedicated to my dad John Rowley

Rachel Entwistle

Rachel Jane

Rebecca Nash

Richard Jones

Sally Dellar

Sami Ibrahim

Simon and Nora Donaldson

Sohn & Rich Minett

Sophie Easton

Stephen Adams

Stuart Pampellone, dedicated to Louise Millais

Sue Garlick

Sue Smallwood

Tamsin Woodsmith

Tarryn Graham

Tim Whitehead

Tom Millar

Victoria Firth

Zaniah Carigiet


 The following agencies offer free information and support

 

Cruse Bereavement Care 

www.cruse.org.uk

Helpline: 0808 808 1677 helpline@cruse.org.uk

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Hope Again

young people living again after loss (part of Cruse)

www.hopeagain.org.uk   

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BAMEStream

‘Coming together during the Covid-19 pandemic to bring Black, Asian and Minority Ethnic (BAME) Mental Health into the Mainstream’

info@bamestream.org.uk

www.bamestream.org.uk/bereavement-support

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Samaritans

24 hour helpline, call: 116123 

www.samaritans.org